Sensual tips recommend variety.

Many sensual tips emphasize variety as the key to keeping a romantic relationship moving forward, but that doesn’t mean a couple has to wait until they are feeling a bit bored with their routine to mix it up. Playing stimulating games at any stage of a relationship can generate excitement and bonding.

But what kind of games might one choose? There are any number of options, including:

• 21 strokes. This is essentially playing the game of poker known as 21 or Blackjack. Players are each dealt two cards and may then ask for more cards if they desire. The goal is to reach 21 points or get as close to it without getting more than 21. In this variation, each player gets his male organ stroked or her female organ rubbed by the other partner; the number of strokes depends on the cards they get. So if the man gets 20 and the woman gets 21, the woman strokes his manhood 20 times and he rubs her female organ 21 times. This can be an excellent game to initiate and guide pre-play. (Another variation – rather than stroking, the players lick or otherwise orally gratify their partner’s organ.)

• Unclothed charades. There are many ways to play unclothed charades, but this is a good one to try. A number of categories are decided upon. As each category is called, then players use their partner’s body to illustrate an object in the category. For example, if the category is “Fruits,” the female might take the male’s member in her hands and mime peeling it like a banana. The male, in turn, might fondle the woman’s chest in such a way as to suggest apples.

• 20 distracted questions. A variation on the familiar guessing game, the woman picks a noun that falls into the category of being either animal, vegetable or mineral. The man then asks yes-or-no questions to determine what it is. The difference here is that the entire time that the male is asking questions, his manhood is being fondled and orally pleasured by the woman. The goal is to see if he can guess the answer before he releases. Manual and oral stimulation can be performed on the woman as she takes her turn as the asker.

• I spy excitedly. In a regular game of “I Spy,” one player picks out an object (perhaps one that is red) and says “I spy something red.” The other players then have to guess what that something is. The rules are the same here, but in this version, the partner who is guessing has to overcome a little distraction: having a vibrator gently run across his or her pleasure zones. As with the other guessing game, the goal is to make a correct guess before being sent over the edge in terms of a release.

As is probably clear, the range of stimulating games is limited only by the participants’ imagination – and most sensual tips tell us that imagination is the key to a healthy sensual life. But it also helps is a man has a fit and healthy member as well, and using a superior male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can definitely aid in male organ health maintenance. Stimulating games may get a little out of hand occasionally, resulting perhaps in some rough play that might cause de-sensitization of the manhood. But using a crème with a neuroprotective ingredient like acetyl L-carnitine can help to prevent that loss of sensation. It also helps to select a crème with vitamin C, as that vitamin is a great help in terms of collagen production and member tissue firmness. With a healthy manhood at hand, a man is that much more prepared for fun and games with his partner.

Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men’s health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.

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